By Elizabeth Bernold. 15 December 2009
I’m writing to update you three months in to my Southern African-adventure. Lately I’ve discovered that I don’t particularly enjoy writing reflective or emotional mass emails to my friends and family (hence, the void of emails since September!) so I’ll keep this short. Feel free to write back; I’d love to correspond with each and every one of you individually
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[Links in this email lead mostly to my pictures, which you can also find at www.flickr.com/photos/busylizzie/]
The (very) abridged “reflection”–Sept 3-Dec. 12
1. Daily life in Cape Town, especially at the beginning has been hard. Culture shock, including socioeconomic-identity shock, wealth-gap shock, being threatened, lack of community and friends and family, and difficulty working with SAEP have been the real kickers. All of these should be expected for most moves (hopefully minus the safety issue) and job changes, but they still managed to throw me for a loop! I will say that I have learned a lot about taking care of myself (physically and emotionally) in trying times. Suffice it to say, I’ve had plenty of time and reason to think hard about big things: interpersonal interactions, (especially at work in terms of group management and motivation); the benefits and drawbacks of international ‘aid’ providers; nonprofit organizations; my place in the world career-wise, location-wise and relationship-wise; what I want out of life; what I could potentially contribute to the world. I won’t get into any of that here, though. AND, don’t worry–there have been many many many positives to balance out the difficulties!
2. We have been grabbing every opportunity to learn and experience new things that comes along! There are lots of highlights of my time in South Africa. This is JUST a sampling of some of the best of the best.
Friends: Katie Sue and I have reached out to everyone we possibly to could to find great friends. Katie Sue’s extended family, friends-of-friends-of-friends, university students whose names were provided by a synagogue parking attendant named Smiley, Zimbabweans, new Tarheel friends (Caroline Schneider), our landlady and her extended family, the list goes on. I’ll say that we struggled for a good 3 months before we felt that we had established a friend network. For any other young people planning a move sometime soon, I recommend that you keep in mind that the first 3 months will likely be very difficult. Don’t be too disappointed with your new home until at least month 5!
Events: In Cape Town, we have tried to do it all. We have attended lectures on “peace,” partied on Long Street as part of the World Cup draw celebration (ayoba, apparently ‘cool’ in Zulu, is the big cheer of the year here!, explored the Garden Route (the coastal area east of Cape Town), spent a Sunday at Mzoli’s, a party-spot in Gugulethu (a township near Cape Town), hiked Lion’s Head and Table Mountain. I’ve attended poetry readings in Observatory, the Bohemian hub of Cape Town, bunjee-jumped off of the highest bunjee-bridge in the world (and the highest bridge in Africa!), devoured Nelson Mandela’s autobiography, and run down my street in the early morning hours with unnaturally large pigs that routinely escape from a farm down the road.
This city provides more opportunity for beautiful life than any other I have visited in the world! This work week, for example, ended with an evening on Clifton Beach #4, sandwiched between cliffs, to watch the sunset and a surfing documentary on the sand. Saturday we spent 5 hours (with ample SPF50 sunblock, an umbrella, and a big sunhat! — that’s for you, mom!) at the beach. Did I mention it’s December??? In terms of beauty, this place is pretty close to heaven.
3. Plans for this week include: Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens, a Christmas carol concert, high tea at the Mount Nelson Hotel, and a sunrise walk up Lion’s Head at 5am on Wednesday morning, amongst others.
4. Why so many plans? Because I’m leaving! For many reasons–including dwindling funds, and the Christmas/summer holidays, I am leaving Cape Town on Friday. Here are my plans:
1. Now-Dec 18: in Cape Town, continuing with SAEP
2. Dec 18 (Only 3 days from today!): I’ll board a bus for a 21-hour trip to Windhoek, Namibia. I’ll be there for 6 weeks, living with a family of wonderful cousins who live there. I can’t wait for this opportunity to get to know a part of my family that has been so far from me for my whole life!
3. Late January: my dad arrives in time for my cousins’ Bat Mitzvahs in Windhoek, and a 3 week tour of Namibia and South Africa will commence. We’ll be traveling to the Sossuvlei Dunes and Skeleton Coast (Namibia), Durban, St Lucia, Hluhluwe-Imfolozi Game Reserve, the Drakensberg Mountains, Bulungula (on the Wild Coast) and Cape Town.
4. Feb 24: board a plane in Cape Town, to arrive in Raleigh on Feb 25.
If you have spent time in Namibia or South Africa, please send along any suggestions for travel!
I’ll do my best to update on our blog (www.tarheeltransplants.wordpress.com) this week and while in Nam. And, if you write back to me, I’ll be sure to respond to you! If you would prefer to observe my goings-on in pictures (that are often updated more frequently than the blog), be sure to check out www.flickr.com/photos/busylizzie
FYI: My cell phone number (currently +27 72 722 6461) will be changing next Saturday when I go to Namibia. It will revert to my SAn number on Feb 10.
Lastly, a HUGE thank you to all of you who have provided me with support — financial, emotional — this year. You know who you are! I wouldn’t be here without you.
Sending big hugs and lots of love to you, wherever you are in the world,
Lizzie